femininity

Feminine energy is one of the most powerful
forces on earth. If you want to attract your
dream man… then you want to tap into your
infinite source of femininity. If you want to
have a long lasting passionate relationship or
marriage, then you must express your inner
femininity. If you want a man to love you and
treasure you, then you must attract him with
your femininity.
However, most women are oblivious to their
true feminine power. Just in case some of you
disagree, I want to tell you a quick story.
On an extraordinarily beautiful sunny day in
the late 1960s, a man named Arthur Bremer
attended a political rally at Parliament Hill, in
Ottawa, Canada. He had a zealous sense of
mission for the biggest and most important
day of his life. He had spent 3 whole years
preparing for this day; and had planned his
action meticulously for perfect execution (as
the masculine energy does).
He walked through a huge crowd of people. In
fact, people were just everywhere, and it was
hard to find some space. The main attraction
of this gathering was the presence of
President Richard Nixon.
Arthur was in state – nothing was going to stop
him, and his intention and desired result were
unequivocal.
He walked in to a bit of empty space at the
side of the huge crowd of people, and with
absolute strength and resolve, he reached in to
a pocket inside his jacket where he kept his
gun ready to assassinate President Richard
Nixon. He was at point blank range. With all
this masculine intensity and resolve, as he was
about to pull his gun out of his pocket,
somebody knocked him on the arm.
Full of rage and disgust for whoever or
whatever it was that broke his state, and
sabotaged his mission and his chance – the
biggest moment of his life for which he had
planned for years – he turned around to see a
tiny little lady, incredibly tiny, and amazingly
soft; and heard her say in deep concern: ‘oh
dear! I am SO SORRY! Are You OK?!’ and in
that moment showed him more love and
connection, more true feminine energy, than he
had ever received in his life.
In that moment, he lost his state completely.
And, Arthur says in his personal diary (now
published as ‘An Assassin’s Diary’), that he
just couldn’t do it. He said that he was at
point blank range, but he could not make this
soft little lady witness something so
horrendous. He didn’t want to make her see
this.
Arthur Bremer was a man who grew up in a
very disfunctional family, and was beaten and
yelled at consistently at home. He was
relentlessly mocked, teased and hated during
his entire life and throughout his schooling
years. He was a janitor. Never married, never
made love to a woman – and felt he had
absolutely no significance in his life.
His resolve to kill Richard Nixon was solely for
fame. It had nothing to do with Nixon himself;
nothing to do with any political issue or idea
that he was opposed to.
Arthur Bremer then went on to shoot Governor
Wallace in May 1972 4 times, which left
Wallace paralyzed from the waist down for
the rest of his life. For this assassination
attempt, he planned for another 2 whole
years. He was sentenced to 63 years in prison,
and on appeal this was reduced to 53 years. He
was released in November 2007 however.
FEMININITY and VULNERABILITY
The point of the story is to show just how
powerful vulnerability is – how powerful the
feminine truly is. The sheer vulnerability and
feminine softness of this little lady caused
this man’s 3-year long plan to assassinate the
president to collapse in the space of just
seconds.
The masculine energy, if it is true, wants to
protect and serve the feminine energy.
Ultimately, a man wants to make a woman
happy. The feminine woman who can give love at
the greatest level to a man beyond measure
– and accept him as he is, in his entirety – has
more power and strength than anyone can
possibly imagine.
Any man who has lived has experienced huge
challenges. In a man’s life, there are many of
them – many challenges of which women neglect
to understand, or even want to understand.
Most women are too busy thining about their
own challenges, and bemoaning the historical
struggles they, as a gender have had.
A truly feminine woman is able to give more
love than any other. Most women just don’t do
this anymore. Real and lasting love is not easy
to give. And, if you know inside that no-one
can love your man (or future man) as much as
you do – he will show up in the most amazing
ways in your life.
The problem is that like in Arthur Bremer’s
life – if love is not given – it causes more
destruction in the world. One of the many
roles of a feminine woman is to open to,
receive and most importantly – give love. Not
only when it’s easy. And, for you personally; in
fact all of us women, need to be open to
receiving a man’s love as well. If you do not
embrace the love you’re given, if you do not
choose to see the love that is evident in your
life, it will not grow. It will die.
Feminine energy and it’s potential
Feminine energy has the most unbelievable
ability to elicit more masculine strength and
power in a man – and not only that, but as in
Arthur’s case – it has the power to stall a
man’s mission, as many of us may already know
and – men don’t like it when their intensity is
broken. But, it’s not all bad, especially if it’s
done in a good way, as in this story. This little
lady had more power in that moment than many
others. Just a little vulnerability and a little
love given – and BAM! A woman can halt the
assassination of a president.
I know that in my own life, there were
moments when I was a little girl, and now as a
woman, where I’ve done something
(subconsciously) and men have responded to
me in ways that I really appreciate. Often, this
interchange of, and balancing out masculine
and feminine energy is unconscious. We may
not even notice it all the time. So as women, we
will know that by knowing how to be feminine,
and how to be true to our feminine core, we
can encourage different (and even much
better) parts of a man to show up.
Femininity is Power. Use it, and use it wisely
I hope you enjoyed this post, and what did you
think of Arthur’s story?